Title: How to Save a Life
Author: Sara Zarr
Publication date: September 1, 2012
Length: 412 pages
Age group: Young Adult
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Everyone knows how to live, be who they are, find their place. But I’m still waiting.
Jill’s life lost all meaning when her dad died. Friend, boyfriend, college – nothing matters any more. Then her mother drops a bombshell. She’s going to adopt a baby. Mandy is desperate for her life to change. Seventeen, pregnant and leaving home, she is sure of only one thing – her baby must never have a life like hers, whatever it takes.
Heart-achingly beautiful, How to Save a Life is about finding love, truth and your place in the world… all where you least expect it.
How to Save a Life was the first book I’ve read by Sara Zarr and I have to say, I’m really impressed. Contemporary fiction is one of my favourite genres but at the same time, books like this can be quite tricky. Books dealing with the loss of a loved one can quite easily turn into something very cheesy and over-the-top. However, it’s definitely not the case with How to Save a Life. Not only is Zarr’s book frighteningly real, its concept is very unique and I love the message it conveys.
The book tells the story of two seventeen year-old girls with two completely different backgrounds. Mandy grew up in a single-parent family by her alcoholic mother – she dropped out of high school, never really had friends or a loving family. She’s desperately trying to get away from her old life and start it all over again, to build a better future for herself and the baby but doesn’t know how. And we have Jill, only child to a well-to-do mother, who has just lost her father in an accident and who’s been trying to go back to her old self ever since, without success. I didn’t really manage to connect to either of them at first: I found Mandy quite naive and ‘away with the fairies’, and Jill very rude and full of herself, but they both grew on me soon enough. And I loved the contrast between the two of them: the fact that apart from the baby, Mandy has nothing or no one else – not even a proper, loving family or a better future to look forward to, while Jill has a loving mum and friends she could count on and all she does is drive them away and completely alienate herself.
Going back to my original remark about contemporary fiction, where most of these books go wrong, if you ask me, is romance. Love triangles in young adult fiction seem to be the newest trend and for me, seven out of ten times they just don’t work. I get irritated by the fact that it’s all so predictable and terribly unrealistic. The thought that real life is nothing like that is constantly at the back of my mind and it keeps me from enjoying the book in question. But reading How to Save a Life was very different. It was realistic, not at all over-the-top, cheesy or even predictable, and I loved the two male characters (especially Dylan).
Whether you prefer young adult or adult fiction, I would definitely recommend that you read How to Save a Life. It’s a touching, yet optimistic and a very much realistic story about two girls with completely different backgrounds but a common aim: wanting to start over. It’s a unique novel with a beautiful message that will definitely make you think – I really enjoyed it.
“Dad would want me to be here. There’s no other explanation for my presence. Sometimes it’s like I exist – keep going to school, keep coming home, keep showing up in my life – only to prove that his confidence in me, his affection for me, weren’t mistakes. That I’m the person he always said I was. Am. That I know the right things to do and will always do them in the end, even if it takes me a while to get there and even if I fight the whole way.“